It's clear by now for everybody that life somehow splits people based on their preferences, needs and what they offer.
About the guys
You have the easy-going guys, they don't want anything serious, they are here just for fun and they are acting like it. They don't care, they don't make promises or attachments. But still, they are the ones getting it along every time they want because somehow their attitude generates in the open mind the need to fix or the need to demonstrate him otherwise. I will not even enter in the part with her suffering while all the signs were there. What amazes me is that these girls are still trying with the same type of guys and with exactly the same guys on the principle that if the first x times didn't work for sure I will make him love me now. But well hell even Rhianna sings about rude boys and how desirable are they. I need to mention that this is not the bad guys from the pictures are just lucky don't give a fuck type.
The relationship material ones that even if they try to be like the ones from the first category, they will still be perceived as what they are, relationship material. And this what they are although they have some times when they are trying, their character and attitude and gestures are blowing away their cover.
About the girls
You have the easy-going girls who will always cry and say they want a relationship and a family and all that stuff but their cover is blown away by so many things. The way they dress their attitude and everything shows that they want to have fun and that's all. They are predators in the search for the next great present, the next expensive bottle service and so on. Conversation and connection is not on their list.
The relationship material ones are the good girls that you dream of but fate has a funny way of giving them easy-going friends so you have to look very carefully after them.
How it works
Relationship material girls in most of the cases will go for the easy-going guys because they want to fix them. They end up suffering every time. And if by any chance they end up with a relationship material guy well, leave that to their friends and "good" relationship advice.
Easy going girls will go for anything. The bad part is when they land a relationship material guy because they will mess him up big time with a high chance of transforming him into an asshole.
Easy-going guys will mess up the relationship material girls so that when they will meet a relationship material guy they will not trust him and they will impose on him every past frustration.
Relationship material guys will be messed up by the easy-going girls so that when they meet a relationship material girl they will not trust her and they will impose on her every past frustration.
Funny Business
So isn't life funny? it has a way of making it hilarious.
What can we do? Fix ourselves up asap otherwise, we are just continuing the endless circle of pain and disappointment.