It's clear by now for everybody that life somehow splits people based on their preferences, needs and what they offer.
About the guys
You have the easy-going guys, they don't want anything serious, they are here just for fun and they are acting like it. They don't care, they don't make promises or attachments. But still, they are the ones getting it along every time they want because somehow their attitude generates in the open mind the need to fix or the need to demonstrate him otherwise. I will not even enter in the part with her suffering while all the signs were there. What amazes me is that these girls are still trying with the same type of guys and with exactly the same guys on the principle that if the first x times didn't work for sure I will make him love me now. But well hell even Rhianna sings about rude boys and how desirable are they. I need to mention that this is not the bad guys from the pictures are just lucky don't give a fuck type.
The relationship material ones that even if they try to be like the ones from the first category, they will still be perceived as what they are, relationship material. And this what they are although they have some times when they are trying, their character and attitude and gestures are blowing away their cover.
About the girls
You have the easy-going girls who will always cry and say they want a relationship and a family and all that stuff but their cover is blown away by so many things. The way they dress their attitude and everything shows that they want to have fun and that's all. They are predators in the search for the next great present, the next expensive bottle service and so on. Conversation and connection is not on their list.
The relationship material ones are the good girls that you dream of but fate has a funny way of giving them easy-going friends so you have to look very carefully after them.
How it works
Relationship material girls in most of the cases will go for the easy-going guys because they want to fix them. They end up suffering every time. And if by any chance they end up with a relationship material guy well, leave that to their friends and "good" relationship advice.
Easy going girls will go for anything. The bad part is when they land a relationship material guy because they will mess him up big time with a high chance of transforming him into an asshole.
Easy-going guys will mess up the relationship material girls so that when they will meet a relationship material guy they will not trust him and they will impose on him every past frustration.
Relationship material guys will be messed up by the easy-going girls so that when they meet a relationship material girl they will not trust her and they will impose on her every past frustration.
Funny Business
So isn't life funny? it has a way of making it hilarious.
What can we do? Fix ourselves up asap otherwise, we are just continuing the endless circle of pain and disappointment.
Tuesday, August 14, 2018
Thursday, February 1, 2018
Winter Night
We are not talking about one of those lovely warm sunny days when you wake up feeling that all the good things in the world could happen. When the evening comes as a celebration for your extraordinary day and the night just comes up as a moment that shows you a clear full moon which makes you smile and brings warmth to your heart.
We are talking about a day that started with clouds up in the sky and the only thing that they were announcing was another fair warning: take care of your soul.
One evening in which you are listening to your playlist on shuffle and somehow only the sad songs come up or in fact you hear only the sad in them but not in a bad way, you hear it in the way that motivates you. I am sure you had the same impression while listening to radio and outside is raining and somehow the Dj knows your state of mind and all songs are matching it.
One of those evenings when the alcohol already made you numb and the night doesn't announce anything but the solitude of your thoughts thru which you are trying to find some courage. We are talking about a cold winter night when you are trying to stay warm. When no moon is on sight and no dreams are floating around. But with all this is still peaceful, in a weird poetic way.
What if out of a sudden you see it but you ignore it, you start talking with it but you don't pay any importance. You are talking with somebody but you don't even realize why and what brought you to that moment. It continues for hours and then you go home and the only thing that remains are questions that need to be answered.
We are talking about a day that started with clouds up in the sky and the only thing that they were announcing was another fair warning: take care of your soul.
One evening in which you are listening to your playlist on shuffle and somehow only the sad songs come up or in fact you hear only the sad in them but not in a bad way, you hear it in the way that motivates you. I am sure you had the same impression while listening to radio and outside is raining and somehow the Dj knows your state of mind and all songs are matching it.
One of those evenings when the alcohol already made you numb and the night doesn't announce anything but the solitude of your thoughts thru which you are trying to find some courage. We are talking about a cold winter night when you are trying to stay warm. When no moon is on sight and no dreams are floating around. But with all this is still peaceful, in a weird poetic way.
What if out of a sudden you see it but you ignore it, you start talking with it but you don't pay any importance. You are talking with somebody but you don't even realize why and what brought you to that moment. It continues for hours and then you go home and the only thing that remains are questions that need to be answered.
Wednesday, January 31, 2018
Patience Heart
And that one morning they both woke up, but that was no ordinary morning. The coffee had the same taste as they both agreed a long time ago what was their preferred one. As usual, they prepared the same breakfast and consumed it on the couch while they were binging.
None of them saw that the other's eyes no longer had the sparkle. You may wonder what happened with it, funny, nobody knows. They don't even know the exact morning when this happened.
Maybe they would have done something or maybe they would have stopped right that morning.
Well, that's life, full of surprises.
They continued their routine without realizing how much harm they were doing to themselves. Maybe they hurt each other or maybe they tried to hard or maybe they focused on way too many things instead of what was happening. They will never know.
Time passed and then one evening they realized that the sparkle was gone. Only one had the courage to say it, but it no longer matters at that point who makes the first move.
And you see, the comfort, the fear of the unknown, the routine, was holding them back like nothing before.
Not even one word found it's place as it was clear that they both tried and it was clear that their roads were in a desperate need of separation.
This is the point when each one continues their own stories just like two superheroes that appeared in one movie together and now each one continues his saga like nothing ever happened.
And this is what they should do, each one for herself/himself. They must open their arms and hearts for the next person that will appear sooner or later. They need to allow themselves to be surprised by life. They will do this because it will not help any of them to look back. They will do this because they will meet awesome persons that will deserve all of them. And each one of them has a lot of things to offer.
Patience heart, the best is yet to come as you've seen nothing, felt a lot, but be amazed because you will feel like never before in your life.
None of them saw that the other's eyes no longer had the sparkle. You may wonder what happened with it, funny, nobody knows. They don't even know the exact morning when this happened.
Maybe they would have done something or maybe they would have stopped right that morning.
Well, that's life, full of surprises.
They continued their routine without realizing how much harm they were doing to themselves. Maybe they hurt each other or maybe they tried to hard or maybe they focused on way too many things instead of what was happening. They will never know.
Time passed and then one evening they realized that the sparkle was gone. Only one had the courage to say it, but it no longer matters at that point who makes the first move.
And you see, the comfort, the fear of the unknown, the routine, was holding them back like nothing before.
Not even one word found it's place as it was clear that they both tried and it was clear that their roads were in a desperate need of separation.
This is the point when each one continues their own stories just like two superheroes that appeared in one movie together and now each one continues his saga like nothing ever happened.
And this is what they should do, each one for herself/himself. They must open their arms and hearts for the next person that will appear sooner or later. They need to allow themselves to be surprised by life. They will do this because it will not help any of them to look back. They will do this because they will meet awesome persons that will deserve all of them. And each one of them has a lot of things to offer.
Patience heart, the best is yet to come as you've seen nothing, felt a lot, but be amazed because you will feel like never before in your life.
Monday, January 1, 2018
What to start with?
I had in the past another blog in which I was writing down in a hurry all my faded thoughts as I was constantly under the impression that I will not be able to share everything. Funny thing is that my intention was not to share but was more as a therapy for me. After a few posts reactions came so it seems I was not the only crazy person with those ideas.
Yes I know and I am totally aware that in the 21st century writing your ideas in a blog isn't that "cool" anymore and that I should do it with a podcast or with a vlog, but my voice and face are betraying me.
I am not writing for somebody to read, I am writing for me, so I don't care if it's cool or not and who knows? maybe someday I will do it in a modern way also. If meanwhile, someone stumbles upon it then we will see if we share the same outdated and stupid ideas or not.
Straight to the point.
P.S.: in the past two years I noted on my phone different topics so I am putting them here in a logical sequence of writing
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