1st Lesson: Cry

I always dreamed of writing some advice for my kids.
Honestly speaking I don't have kids and I don't think I will reach that point in my life but then again if this is the written plan for me, may it be.
About my dream now. I think we live in a society in which we are building a very nice image because that's what is required. I am scared that we will reach a point where we will no longer know who we really are. Actually, most of the people are already there, they don't know that they don't know who they are. They let herself guided by out their friends do by out strangers are saying about them and so on.
The first advice would be: BE YOU, no matter what.
Now comes the lesson because being you will be as painful as hell. People don't accept it and don't take it easy, they will want you to fit and you will feel the need to fit. Don't fall in that trap.
CRY, whenever you feel it cry. You are not weak if you do it.
People will be mean and they will hurt you, cry, it will make you stronger.
You will fall in love. Well, here pay attention and run after that love that burns. You need to feel that it burns otherwise it's just the mirage of love. You will love many times but once it will be the real deal and you will feel it, trust me. On your trip whenever you say " I love you" stay true to your commitment and know that these words mean that you will respect her but also will mean that you will have to make some difficult decisions.
Going to the moment with the true one, I honestly don't know and nobody knows how you will know it but I can tell you that you will feel it burns. Don't fall in the books and movie trap, the reality it's different. Reality it's totally different but at the same time, I can tell you that they will never be able to reproduce in a movie or books the actual feeling. I really hope you will be lucky enough and that you will end up with her and you will build your own fairytale.
Life is tricky and for sure there will be conflicts and breakups, the world will not end. The real test of your love for her will be when you will have to stop trying as it only hurts her.
All through your life be a man, a real man that respects and when it comes to the end wishes the best and does the best for her.

CRY my kid CRY, let it all out. It hurts and maybe you think that is the end but nobody knows. Maybe it will be the experience that will change forever your interaction with girls or not. I wish for you to find her, find the one to be happy and whenever you will feel the need to cry, CRY.

P.S. I don't know what to say if I will have a girl or girl also. I can tell you only to look for the stupid honest working guy the rest will want you just for fun. H/ave you fun, but play the ones that want fun, not the soft stupid ones. Your father was once like this.

Nobody has a secret recipe but you need to allow life to surprise you every day. Bad or good, doesn't matter as long as it is a surprise.
When it hurts CRY.