Getting back to the subject which in fact are multiple subjects that relay to the same idea of where the f are we going.
A woman should be able to walk down the street without you bastards screaming after her. If you dare touching her than I am telling you that your hand should be cut. I highly doubt it you would like that being done to your mother or to your sister you sinister poor f***. Raise men not boys, raise them with respect towards a woman and her value. For the time being we still live in a world where men express like this, in a way that's not acceptable even for animals. Respect!
I've met several girls which were touched and yelled at since they were young and that created trauma and fears so visible and so hard to fix. Some of them positioned love in the aggressive area and for them a warm approach was fake. Can you just imagine somebody making your daughter feel that respect is not for her and willingly going towards guys that will treat her bad?
A men is allowed to cry, normalize that. I heard a lot of women saying they find the vulnerability of a men sexy but how many of you really appreciate that. How many of you really appreciate that and understand that he is like that with you but the rest of time they are still strong? Stop putting social pressure on boys since they are young that they must be strong as you are only making him close his emotions. Emotions don't make you weak.
I remember at a certain point I was crying over the loss of the person I love and her reaction was: "see, how can i trust you that you will be there for me in a though situation if this is your reaction?". If a man doesn't cry over loosing what he loves than is he a man? We need to raise future men to be honest with their feelings and attentive to a women's feelings we need to raise future women to be honest and attentive to a men's feelings. Reciprocity is called.
I have much more to say about what i think it's wrong on how men and women deal with relationships but it's already late.
Yeah i am angry about this one, we are all f*** in the head. I was reading a few days ago ( it shocked me and it's still with me ) that if a person is good and she/he offers help or a nice gesture without being asked for than they are selfish. Are you kidding me? How in the hell we reached a point in our society that we consider fundamental good persons that don't expect nothing in return as being selfish? Have you heard of human trauma and human condition that blocks all of us in multiple situations to ask for help. I am really thinking when you will have a kid and she/he will not be able to ask for help on certain situations if you would wish for them to have somebody there to lend a helping hand without any strings attached. Wake up people we don't need to find something bad in everything.
Let me tell you my definition of good. About 17 years ago i was working in Egypt and walking down the streets of Cairo i ended up getting lost in the cemetery neighborhood ( the cemetery it's an actual neighborhood where people were leaving in poor conditions next to the graves of their loved ones). A very poor barefoot men approached me and directly told me that i look lost and told me that they can help me find my way back. Unsolicited help was given to me and gush it felt good and at the end of our walk i offered to pay him as i felt in debt somehow and his answer was: " we are all human and we must try to help others when we see that they need it even if they don't ask for it". That is kindness, that is being a good person. To my shame i don't think I am there yet but I am working on it everyday to be like that for my loved ones and for even a stranger. This week really messed me up when while waiting to cross the street a young boy asked me for some help and when I offered him 50 Ron he told me that maybe i did a mistake and to think twice. I reassured him that it's ok and he stopped there with his eyes towards the sky and started crying. As I was walking away he started moving also and I realized that i can help him more and turned around and went after him. The moment he saw me he reached to his pocket, took out those 50 ron and told me that it's ok if i realized that i need them. F***, how? I gave him some extra money and i walked while i left him in tears looking towards the sky again. He is a good person. I stopped around the corner, sat down on the sidewalk and cried for half an hour because i didn't have the power to ask him his story and tell him a few good words.
We live in a world where the constant motto is self love but nobody says that self love without empathy is vanity. Just think about it for a while.
So i am thinking now way past midnight, where the f are we going? What's wrong with us?
P.S. for sure i will come back with a second part because as sleepy as I am am the much i would write
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