And now I find myself in front of the keyboard and so many ideas are running through my mind that makes me so difficult for me to start with one and as I am writing I am so scared that I might write only a few lines and then save it in my drafts for a later time. Just as I finished the previous sentence I realized that if you stay in the moment long enough things are starting to make sense. I repeat, they make sense for me and they shouldn't necessary make sense for you also but if you manage to read it, give yourself a clap because I was never able to read what I write. Not even to correct any typos that make me look like a stupid as fuck that doesn't know how to write but still does it.
And the first idea that catched a shape it's about this exact thing, about doing it. Or like Nike says, just do it. I never understood the people who don't do anything and to my sadness I live i the country in which most of the people are good at complaining, making up excuse but not actually doing something. People criticize other people that are actually trying do something, and I am not even entering in the support area as most of us in eastern Europe we are so far from this thing. We look at famous people and if they start promoting a shit we are in a hurry to support them while if somebody from our mud pool tries to do something we are willing to go the forest cut down some trees make our own sticks just to jab it in the persons wheels, maybe maybe they fail. We make idols out of politicians, crooks and hookers. They display ritches and disrepectfull behaviour and directly the society jumps in making them semi gods without applying a moral judgement. Around here we lack financial education and people make a credit to buy a home in which they are living but they are not calling it a home, it's an investment; we buy second hand cars having in mind the price we could sell it afterwards because again we are making an investment. And the list could go on and on. It's mind blowing as the internet should have brought knowledge, open borders should have brought knowledge, AI should have brought knowledge but NO, nobody bothers to search and find at least one of the most popular definitions about investment: investment is when to start with if you loose those money it will not affect your life, second one and equally important is that an investment purpose is to produce other money. I realize now, stupid me, they are investing in themselves :))))) that's why they call it an investment. But wait wait it doesn't stand as people save money to pay in advance their credits (sorry investments) or to go in a hollyday abroad while the whole idea is to make your everyday life better not to have from time to time a better life. Basic example, if you discovered a perfume you like your objective should be to afford next month the same and the shower gel and so on. Everybody dreams at making easy money but nobody wants to do the work, the only work they are willing to do is in the gym because hey they can see a nice ass or somebody can look at their ass. Vanity, this is our main sin. We hide behind childish excuses just to feed our vanity. A crook or a hooker makes some easy money buys an expensive car and imediately everybody wants that and who stays good with their credit score will jump to buy the second hand edition just to pretend hey I have also. I don't know about you but I don't want to be associated with a certain category of people. People complain they work too much instead of trying to work smarter, learn something new or use that time they spent doom scrooling for learning something new or hey even building a side hustle. Sleep over sleep and lasyness over lazyness from a 9 to 6 job, you should be ashamed. But hey like this we reach the best part of it all. It's fashionable to blame your parents for your behaviour because hey they built trauma inside of you like a kid builds houses in Minecraft instead of taking responsibility for your actions and words. I agree that here, at doing stuff, the parents are too blame. If they extra spoil their kids and don't send them to work while they are young because their kids must focus on school you will have this result. They will take their bacheloors degree and reality will hit in some cases while in other not even then because their parents will still support them and they will use the eternal stupid line: for that salary I don't even get out of bed. You fuck your knowledge is equal to zero but your requests are through the roof because your mama and daddy told you that you are smart. We have a saying for that: every hen brags about her chickens, or something like that. Due to them, the parents, all these generations fail to understand that in order too have it good you must a walk through bad. And you can see this lack of realism in the smallest things. Take for example, everybody complains about a road that has a lot of pot holes, the mayors office start demolishing the road in order to fix it properly, everybody complains that he ruined the road They lask the basic understanding that without a really bad situation you cannot reach a really good one. But what can you ask from people that buy second hand cars as investment, for them the solution for the road would have been to patch it. Stop raising kids that shouldn't experience the needs you had growing up and start raising kids that want t be informed and play a role in the society and have a moral back bone in which they don't consider crooks and hookers as role models just because they have money. Stop hating, start building. And so on but this just me taking out my frustrations because I don't have, right?
I land like this to the change capability. Business idea for all the lazy fucks who are coaches, because the psychology diploma was too hard and took too long versus a course made in 2 months In an obscure basement by another lazy lover of easy money on the backs of suckers. Back to the idea coach people on will, how too build their own personal will and to have it at their disposal for use in all aspects of their life's. A local nobody , in my opinion but a succesfull business en for others, said why open a pretzel bakery when you could build a SAS, a standuper said why build a SAS when you could sell a course to teach others how to build a SAS and an influencer completed with why not build a platform where you certify others on how to teach other how to build a SAS. I think this is the best depiction of the love for easy money that this nation has. A while ago I was talking with a buddy and right after he told me he doesn't have money to take his kid to Disneyland he told me that he gathered from bonuses and stocks about 100.000 $ and I was like take money from there and go with your kid to Disneyland. He took the defensive posture and started explaining me that at 50 he wants to stop working so that he can spend time with his kid and the most he willing to do is to invest like 20.000 in something but only if he knows that it will return x2 in 2-3 years. Fuck bro what are you smoking was my reaction and as we departing ways I couldn't stop from leaving him with a question: don't you think that when you will be 50 your kid will already be a teenager and he will not want to spend time with you ? Years passed and he still didn't take his kid to Disneyland. In this area it's tradition when people get married to receive money as a present form family and friends, another tradition si that their parents give them money for that wedding and I never stopped asking who get's married? And if you can't afford to do your wedding than how do you think that you can have a family if mom and dad still gives you money? I already hear the waves of excuses that they want to help and it's nice thing because they don't want their kids to feel the lack of stuff like them. YOU ARE A KID and kids cannot have other kids. Oh hell I am going down another rabbit hole but I will come back to it. For now let me get back to the change capability as I derailed big time.
PEOPLE DON'T CHANGE FOR OTHE PEOPLE. Read that twice. And this doesn't mean that your partner doesn't love you, it's just who they are and it's your thing f you are ok with it or not. People change following big shocks that happens in their life or through their own personally will. They can try for a while just to please you but it won't last. 4 years ago I saw the movie The Minimalists and I started struggling with being a big time Horder so I started right after the movie to clean up stuff and the result was 2 bags of things to throw away. Since then I started doing this exercise about 2 times a year and every tome I have like one big bag of things to donate and another bag of things to throw away. Wat I am trying to say is that movie had such an impact on me that it motivated me to make a change to my life style but the desire came from me and the willingness to do it was all about me, nobody else. I think I had another 4 years till I reach the point I want but hey it's my progress. And I come back to the same idea, how can you expect wilingnes to make a change at them from people who had their decision made by their parents instead of taking an advice from them and adapt it to their life and life purpose. It's just like with babbies they have the willing to walk but if you constantly hold them it will take forever till they will be able to walk on their own. I really think that you can do whatever you put you mind to as long as you have the necessary will and you work like hell for it.
Before I jump to the last idea not because I finished but because I am sleepy and before you start judging because you know me let me say it. Yes I bought a second hand car because that's what I could afford and I wanted certain characteristics from my first car but I never had in mond the pice I could sell I at the second second hand. Yes I made credit in order to buy a home not to make an investment, I just needed a place to live. And regarding work I say to myself for couple of years now that I should write my story, it's not a succesfull ones by the local standards but hey it's my progress. Like everything else in my life my decisions, my progress my will and if I work on me it's on my will.
Before I run to sleep because I must wake up early in the morning because I must go to a lawyer because I must i sign the papers for a new company. Yes it's about sauces and they will be delicious :) Keep hustling stay humble follow your dreams.
You are a KID and kids cannot have other kids, made me think about it. So it's something so wrong with our generations that we contradict nature, docotors, science, everything based on some exceptions that we know. So we fuck around till late in our life following all type of objectives like career or self knowledge or development bullshit and then we decide hey I want a kid. And instead of doing everything necessarry even in that late time we still continue to leave our lives as we are in our twenties when in reality in the morning when getting out of bed we say hop ah ouch. We should at least have more will and treat he topic like we really want it not like hey I think it;s late in my life and I want this. You cannot be so delusional after not taking care of yourself or more extreme cases fucking around unprotected that the process will be easy. Hopefully it will but you must take science in to account and make radical fast changes if you have the will. And this is about an honest conversation you must have with yourself not like when you are talking with your partner. As a man if you know you screwed around unprotected with God knows who go test your ass out when you think you found your person that you hope will be the mother of your kids/s. As a woman if you know you screwed around unprotected with God knows how go test your ass out when you think you found your person that you hope will be the father of your kid/s. And I am saying that you should be honest you with, if you read an older post of mine in which I was saying and will repeat here that I think that most people start a relationship with lies and they call it white lies just to feel better with the person in the mirror. Here is more serious and past matters you cannot answer like on the first dates when you are asked how many relations you had and you count only the ones you conside relationships and the you cut down from there the short ones and reach a really low number just to try and look like a saint. You with you count the relations not the relationships. And hold your titties don't jump that I am one of the Tate brothers I am just encouraging you as woman and as a man to be honest you with you.
The world situation is fucked at this point and we are closer to a WW than ever before. And it think this is because we continue to position towards life in a selfish way not giving a fuck about society. But this is the consequnce of the lack of will and very important the lack of responsibility while we hide behind wokeism, self discovery and other bullshit that makes us more isolated from the society and demands the others to threat us in line with our own indvidulistic ways and not based on the society norms. A good scoiecty means that it's members are good so if you have the society in your mind doen;s mean you don;t have yoursleff in mind. It's a matter of perspective. THINK, it's FREE !
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