Just to prepare the stage I never cheated, I am loyal as fuck and with all this what i projected was the opposite from ladies that started a relationship with me while they were in another relationship or they cheated along the way. I was raised by two extraordinary strong women and from here i can honestly say that i have a huge respect for women in general meaning never ever have I been violent in any way with a woman up to the point that i avoid cursing in their presence also. I dated a lot of girls and ladies along my life and i got involved with only a few in relationships, and there I was present with all my heart. But this is not about my values but about some funny stories.
Another point to be laid down from my perspective is that cheating starts with the intention, man shoots his shoot, the woman can politely refuse mentioning she is not interested or even saying she is in a relationship; if she is not doing this and she entertains the conversation boom there you have it, cheating. Also ignoring it is sort of a I am going to keep this door on my radar who knows. Clear communication equals loyalty anything less or more not. The same applies vice versa.
My last ex cheated on me with the same dude that my first love cheated me 19 years ago. The moment i realised this i laughed for 2 hours straight, just imagine the irony. Then in my pure style of making fun of what hurts me I was thinking to contact him and tell him "dude, how does it feel to be the downgrade" or " dude, I am sorry that 19 years ago i didn't warn you but this time this is what you are walking in to" but I realized that i was a bit drunk and more than sure he wouldn't laugh at my jokes. The funny part is that both times he saw me and maybe he doesn't remembers me but bro stop following me.
Along 3 relationships we were constantly bumping in to a dude in the city and he was every time looking, winking or even coming up to them when i was going to the restroom. In all fairness a pretty handsome dude but as it seems with no respect or morals. As you can imagine the 3rd was the lucky one, meaning she smiled back friended on Instagram and the rest is history.
Most of the relationships had an ex who cheated still present in their life in a way or another because he was an extraordinary person. I get it but if you want to build something with me why should i constantly see him?
The relationship, she was already in the parallel universe and when it became to much for her the decision was to acuse me of cheating. Something like i didn't it garlic and my breath doesn't smell.
People lie, people cheat and that's on them. You should keep a positive mindset and always talk nice to them and about them as the way you act says things about you. At times they will insult your intelligence and don't admit the wrong doing but i really think it's hard to tell yourself the truth, admit to it and still have a good opinion about yourself. This is the characteristic of people who worked and still work with them, they are the ones who will take responsibility for their wrongdoings and try to fix them and they should get second chances as for the others they focus on themselves and don't even think about what they are doing to others.
Be good, spread love and i promise you that someday you will be appreciated.
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